Steady on

Resiliency is yours, if you claim it. Even though It keeps going, the uncertainty, the confusion, the relentless nature of this virus and the disruption all around, you can do this. As you may be feeling now, at some point enough is enough. Its time to make your own ground, a steadiness that is your…

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What is your work?

Mary Oliver in her wise way tells me something incredible. “My work is loving the world. Here the sunflowers, there the hummingbird— equal seekers of sweetness Here the quickening yeast; there the blue plums. Here the clam deep in the speckled sand.” This feels like an internal yes to me. This Saturday morning when I…

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Unfolding…

“I would love to like a river flows, carried by the surprise of its own unfolding” There is a never ending fire drill that is continuously happening which passes for our professional lives.  Busyness comes with its overload of information, requests, demands, meetings and the never, ever, ending emails. All of this comes with the…

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We can’t hold on to things and move forward…

North of Divorce The irony wasn’t lost on me. After years and years of work as a psychologist and leadership consultant–working with couples and individuals– I found myself wondering how the rug got pulled out from under me. Humbling to say the least. So I decided to write a book as both therapy for me…

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